When you can't decide
Here is a surefire way to figure it out
A good cry solves so many problems.
The other day I told Lily she needed a nap because she was being an asshole, and we laid down on the bed and in a muffled little squeaky sob she said, “I don’t need a nap, Mom. I just need to cry. I haven’t cried in a while. I’ve been trying to make it all good times, all the time. But I need to cry.”